Ling Ling’s Story

Growing up with my children

My name is Ling Ling Zi and when I became a parent, I did not know how to be a qualified mother and felt very helpless at times. One day, I went to the nearby community center to ask for help. The community centre’s staff recommended me the HIPPY program. She even helped me to make an appointment with the person in charge, Stefania. During our first meeting, Stefania told me about the HIPPY program, its meaning, purpose, a brief history, and the benefits of the participating family, as well as my role as a HIPPY mother. I knew right there that HIPPY was exactly what I had been craving and what my children and I desperately needed! Starting HIPPY two years ago, my parenting learning process started too. First of all, I learned how to read to my children. Talking about the stories made me to understand how they think and I learned what deeply attracts them too. Often it is an easy-to-understand story played out with an interesting game. Playing with my children opened up their inner world to me. The topics of our communication have increased and I am glad they keep increasing.

Second of all, I learned to listen to my children. Before when Jessie or Jessica wanted to explain something to me, or asked me a question, I did not really listen to them. I often did not tell them the answer, but instead, I asked them what they thought. Of course, them being so young, they did not know how to find answers on their own. Thanks to HIPPY, I learned how to give them a hint that guides them to find the answers they are looking for.

I understand now my children’s biggest wish. They simply want to have a parent to be their companion. They feel loved and happy when I am there for them. They want that I read to them, they wish I played with them. HIPPY gives us the quality time to do both!

I feel very grateful having HIPPY at my home as thanks to the program I have become a more confident mother and I know that HIPPY has helped me to strengthen the parent-child relationship in my family.

THANK YOU!